If you want to experiment with group sex, I’d say meet people on whatever platform you’re using, and do social things together. Sooner or later, connections will start to form organically, and then when sex does happen it doesn’t feel weird or rushed—it’s not like a cold, clinical exchange. Sex is great. Adding more partners into the mix should make it even better.
Organize your own parties, or get a hotel if you have a budget between you as friends. An advantage of organizing your own party is that you can curate the guestlist, although be sure to have the safe sex thing covered—in sex clubs, they normally provide you with condoms.
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